Men's Essentials: Shoes

Monday, August 23, 2010

I've been meaning to write a few posts about this subject for a while, but now just getting around to it.

First, let me disclaim: I am a fashion nightmare, a style idiot, and a pop-culture moron. I make no claims that I'm hip on anything fashion related. I also don't really even need to dress well for work like a lot of folks who work in the finance/corporate world.

That said, I feel there are a few essential items every guy must have.

Shoes
I could put together a bunch of advice, quotes, etc. from people who know more about the subject than me, but trust me, if you work for a living, at some point, I don't care if you are a construction worker or an investment banker, people will look at your shoes.

If you have to wear something other than chucks or slip on vans at work, I'll begin with a nice pair of versatile shoes. Think about it. Shoes are like your mattress, you spend half of your life in them! For most guys, like myself, who don't own 20 pairs of shoes because well, I'm a guy, and I don't think THAT much about my wardrobe. I go for one-size-fits-all-type things.

Now, these could be different for different people. For instance, I wear khaki and/or jeans most of the time--so the shoes I wear most are shoes casual enough for jeans and dressy enough to wear with khaki and a shirt. I also don't actually like wearing sneakers (or tennis shoes for you weirdos who call them that) other than for running. My last pair of 'shoes' (that I wear at least 5 days a week) I've owned for 10 years. I think I paid ~200$ for them at Macy's, and have 1000's of miles on them in probably 10 different countries. Alas, I made a few youthful mistakes that when they finally gave up the ghost, I had to replace with a new pair of shoes. I'm hoping some getting a first job college grad will read this and not make the same mistakes I made.

First my mistakes:
- I bought a 'current trend' style, after 10 years, they were now out of style.
- I bought rubber soles that were not serviceable/replaceable by a cobbler.

I loved those shoes, but they had to go, the newspaper inside just wasn't filling the holes in the sole anymore. It was hard parting with them as we've been through a lot together. I couldn't stand to have that heartbreak with another pair of shoes again so I made a list of some requirements. I thought this through this time. At least I think I did. You tell me.

Requirements:
- Had to work with khaki and jeans, since that's what I wear most.
- Had to be brown/match (see above)
- Had to be a timeless and classic style--I wanted the style to be 'in', 50 years ago as well as 50 years from now.
- Leather, serviceable soles.
- Durable in all weather.
- Finally, made in the USA - Not because I'm a 'crazy made in the USA only nut', but I was a little upset that I couldn't find a pair of new Levi's made in the USA recently, so, for some reason, this was on my list. Perhaps I'll have chance that my 'American' classics won't go away if I support them more. (I can at least try)

My search (and believe me I searched, and searched) brought me to a few choices.

Allen Edmonds
Alden

They fit all of the above requirements. (note: A good cobbler and some bespoke/custom shoes made was an option, and I had thought about it, but with the above two options, I couldn't justify the cost compared to the above) Yes, they are still rather expensive (300-700$), but think about it, if my old shoes weren't out of style and had rubber soles, they would have lasted MUCH longer than 10 years. Investment.

You can find 20yr old Alden's on Ebay, and guess what? they still go for $200+ and are in fantastic shape! Believe me, I 'wanted' to go with used shoes, why buy new if there are perfectly good pair of used shoes out there? Well, my toes were hanging out of my shoes, and I couldn't wait around for my size to come up on Ebay.  You know where else you can find them? Estate sales of dead rich people...

Between the two, I went with Alden, based purely on trying them on and finding them to be a little better quality and fit for me than the Allen Edmonds.

I went with long wingtips style, because it's timeless, classic and works with both jeans and khakis due to it being really casual.

I went with brown shell cordovan ('cigar' actually) because cordovan leather is durable and more waterproof than calf-skin. This almost doubled the price of the shoes though. For those who don't know Shell Cordovan is horse leather. I won't get into it, but you can read about it here.

Here is a video of a tour of the Alden factory.

Here are a picture of my shoes.

Excuse the horrible cell phone picture. 

So there you have it. Every man should have a nice pair of shoes. Up next, eventually, I'll tell you how everyone laughed at me for having a 300$ pen....that's gotten me both of my last 2 jobs....actually I think I wrote about this before now that I remember it? I'll try to find it...

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Stage Left Pig Roast

Monday, August 16, 2010

Stage Left had a cocktail party/class, wine tasting, and pig roast at Bakers farm in East Brunswick. Great time.

Here are some highlights...
Bloodless Mary


I got the cheek...best part.

intense Bocce game..
Fresh picked tomatos
And an awesome Irish band...

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Laziness

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

It doesn't surprise me, yet I don't really understand it. It does bother me enough to warrant a blog post....

WHY can you go to any 'chain' establishment and it be busy, yet next door, better quality and better service can be had, yet it is empty?

Case in point (a few of them): Where I live there are 2 'chain' Italian restaurants...both horribly horrendous...yet, there is a line out the door always, and right between these 2 places are 2 independent Italian restaurants with better food and better service. Yet, they are likely going to go out of business....

Yesterday, I admittedly, have become too lazy to go get my haircut at my usual place which is a few towns over, and have been getting it cut at a big chain by work or another big chain by the gym. Last night I walked into said big chain by the gym, and it they informed me that it was over an hour wait...for a haircut.

I walked over to another place across the street, that I saw a big neon sign undercutting the pricing (looking like 'hey, the chain moved in now we get no business') and I was the ONLY person there. The establishment was owned by an Asian husband and wife who barely spoke English. This guy spend so much time and care cutting my hair that it was one of the best hair cuts I've ever gotten, and I didn't have to hear about what club he was going to that night or any other chatty annoying cosmetology licensed girls bitching about something...and he wanted to charge me but 11$ after all was said and done...

I guess I answered my own question. Laziness....

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My Tiny Pig Roaster

Thursday, August 5, 2010

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Midnight Snack? Lunch? Cannellini Bean Salad with Tomato and Basil

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

I ate a peanut butter and jelly sandwich post run today...a little while later, I was a still hungry. It seems over the long weekend we were away, our (2) tomato plants have since departed us. They left about 10 tomato though, so I wanted to get rid of them. (geez, that sounds like I'm aborting them) I grabbed some basil from the pot, a can of cannellini beans, tomatoes, balsamic vinegar, and some really good extra virgin olive oil, S&P.  It made enough for a snack and for lunch tomorrow...

I get crap (via rude emails from perfect blog strangers) all the time because I don't list recipes...I guess the 'exact' recipe would be...

1 14oz can of cannellini beans, rinsed
1 cup chopped tomato
...as much basil as you see in the picture? or more...or less...you decide.
~1-2Tbs Extra-virgin olive oil
~1Tbs balsamic vinegar
S&P to taste

Or, more of less of any of the above....to taste, of course..if you have poopy offseason tomatoes, don't bother, use something else in season.

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